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Girls like bad boys..., is that true?It is said, if boys are not bad, no girls would like them. The 'bad' here to me means the boys are romantic or have the ability to manage their lovers. What's do you think of this sentence? To girls: Do you think it's good to have a bad boy as your BF? Why? To boys: Do you think you are bad boy? If not, do you appreciate such kind of boys, why? KEEP ON OR QUIT ITLaterly, i nearly halt my english learning. "WHy would that be" , i am thinking to myself? Looking back the year of 2006, after putting bulk of whole year into english-learning, it comes out that i get less improvement than I expected and got frustrated after scoring low in some exams of great importance to me. After the Lunar New year of 2007, i step into my 30th years of age. I feel more tired and cumbersome in learning English with my age growing older and older. And it seems i am competing with those college students with little thought that i am a high school dropout. I am just an ordinary worker in ship-building factory.there is no point for me in keeping on this course. But there is a dream inside me, --to beacome a master of english language and let people shocked by me. What a big daydream to me! How awkward and clumsy i still be after so many years' practice. Should I keep up or quit? ---Topic from remorseless man My post after: I can totally understand your feelings, coz what you are facing now is or would for me to face. Everything is nothingWhen you were lost on the college entrance exam, it's nothing, you can still keep study without sitting in the classroom,you can show your ability on your work.Who can judge you can't be the next Li Jiacheng?
When you were fired by your boss because of your bad performance. It's nothing. Learn from it and apply for a new job. Don't look down yourself by this case. Many great men failed for several times before they became "smart". Believe it was just a piece of cake when someday you "wake up" . When you failed to fulfill your promise so that brought a large loss to others because you did not try your best. It's nothing. Don't blame yourself too much as you have no time-machinery to change the situation. "I'm quite worrying about my TEM-8 so that I cann't fall sleep". Don't joke anymore. Yes, the TEM-8 may help you some. But if you express your fluent spoken English in front of the interviewer, who will care for your TEM-8 certificate? Compared with those who lost one of his hands, like you just lost one fingernail even you failed on the test. There's nothing to cry on it. "I wasted too much precious time on playing games,watching TV, surfing internet and doing too much senseless things. You see,now, I'm wasting my time again.I remorse for my behavior.But I just cann't control myself". It's nothing.Each guy will waste some of his time sometimes.It's quite normal.From another sight-angle, at least,you enjoyed many happy moments. Life should not just consist of hard working.So forgive youself. Consider why would I indulge these kind of things?without pursuit or something else?Then how to settle the problem?How about moving the TV away or asking someone to remind you? ....... No single thing can be decisive for your future. You might fail on some important affairs or tests because of your indulging yourself, you might hurt others because of your faults. But believe, there never only one chance for you. Forget it, forgive yourself, but do learn something from it and try not to trip for the second time at the same place.If it happens, stand up, forgive yourself again, keep on learning something and try not to trip for the third time at the same place...... So, everything is nothing. Believe the lord will open another window for you when he closed one. Solutions are always more than problems. Just take it easy, and lead a happy, free and easy life. As everything is nothing as long as you have a brave and persistent heart. (Just for reference so that you and me can be more easy in this nervious society.) ---Topic from happyjourney
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For your first example, I could not agree to it. Nowadays, especially in China, your education certificate means everything. Sad though, I have to mention it that without the certificate of your college education, you can hardly find a decent job to support yourself. That's why so many people try to have a second try when they failed their college entrance examinations. You can find few ways to testify your ability except from certain certificates in China. For your second example, if you are fired by your boss because of your bad performance, either you really played bad in your word which means you are not equal for it or you are not suitable for the job or your boss does not like you... Forgive me, but I have to say your article is a matter of excuses. It is not unforgiveable if one fails in something, his attitudes to the matter is important. We can not find too many excuses for our failure, it will only ruin our will to go ahead. If everything is nothing, what the point you are living for? Aren't us living for achieving something in life? The life without a clear destination, is a life that too boring to live... I think you'd better say difficulty and failure is nothing, so that people would have the courage to face it. attitudes on vanitywhat's your comment on vanity? Do you feel you can escape from the trap of vanity? ---Topic from happy journey My post after: You topic seems like what do us live for... falling love in a marriaged manHave you ever been falled love in a man who have marriaged , recently,i love my leader ,i am his assistant.what will i do?
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No, never. Is your feelings towards him really love? Have you ever asked yourself, is it that because you do not have BF or the males beside you are not as excellent as your boss so you are caught deeply by him? Both of you won't have any prosperious result. Do think about it when you lost in your blind feelings to him. Otherwise, either you or his family would be harm. To be an honest and nice girl. Apart from exercise, any other way to lose weight?I am thinking about diet food, but i am not sure what i should take
to keep up my everyday energy and lower my calorie intake at the same time. i am loath to work out every day due to my laziness and lack of time, and i am gaining in weight of 30g in the last 3 months after taking a sitting-all-day-long office job and company offer me 3 big,luxurious meals. Why i continue feeling hungry after having 3 meals ---Topic from remorseless man My post after:
Without doing exercises... How about going on a diet? To have less food at each meal. If you could not move your body, just control your stomach... OHOHOHO~ It's quite difficult to cut weight in the office if you do not want to do any exercises, especially when it is holiday time~ To us chinese, spring festival means eating luxurious a lot. To tell you the truth, I am getting on weight in this winter of about 15kg, but I totally ain't worried about it. Because I would resume my karate training after Spring Festival. To do some sports is the best way to cut weight. If you are lazy to do any, just remind yourself every day and night when you go out, speed up the pace when you walk. It does have some effect! Only Love---Topic from foever love~
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1.What's the destination of LOVE?
The destination of love? A complicated question to answer. To me, love should be unselfish. To love somebody does not mean you should in possess of him/her, quite the opposite. To love him/her means you should be always by him/her side. As love is infinite, I don't think we should set a destination for it. Forever love and love is eternal, right? 2.Can our love be predicted? Love is great and the love between couples is also changeable. We can never predict what would happen next to the couples of the world. Because you know, love comes without reasons and leaves without any reasons either. We cannot predict love, but we could try our best to manage to make arrangement for it. Because I do think love is also a kind of business which needs our great care. BTW, the conclusions at the bottom of your post are so interesting. The lover in your dreamwhat should he or she like? A hero treading on the cloud to date with you? or something else? Can share your description with us?
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Everybody should have one Mr/Mr Right in his/her life. I don't think it's meaningful to dream about your another part in future. What if your Mr/Mr Right were not what you dreamed about? Just miss him/her and try to find another? I don't think we should think too much about it. No matter what you dreamed, to be frankly, there's little chance that you could find the right person in your dream. So, to face the fact, ok? Whose fault!my sister?, It is my first theme! 3Q(^.^)---Topic from QQ434636008
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Thanks for your sharing your feelings with us. After reading yoru post, I can feel something inside you. You mentioned above that the girl and you do not have blood relation and both of you regard the other as family members. But is it only your own cognition? Did you ever ask yourself before you broke up with your ex-GF, did you put as much love and time to her as you put to your sister? I have to say, if you put too much to be with a girl, either you fall in love with her or you lose your GF. You should face the fact! If you also think of her as your sister, the beloved ones in your family, keep the distance with her. That's the best way you could do now. And I have to say, she's too young to start a love story with anybody. Her mother scolded her because she spent too much time and energy on cell phone calls. Don't you think it's normal for her mother to do? She's a middle school student and as a student study hard should be her highest duty. I am not speaking that middle school student could not love and be loved by others. What I mean is that if one could not be responsible for himself/herself, no matter how old is he/she, the poor guy is too young to start a love. As a brother, you have the responsibility to persuade your little sister to put much time on her study. We'd better not evaluate the boy, because, it is she who connects with the boy and not you. You could never find his good points if you do not delete the bad impression about him deep inside your mmind. To be a man and a good brother then. Try to instruct your little sister in a kind way, try your best to know something you don't know about the boy. If you cannot bear her lies to you, just ignore them. You've done what you should do and could do, right? Dizziness, I hate sitting in front of PC screenI endured some busy days... There are always loads of work waiting for me, and then I have to be sitting in front of my PC the whole day without a break more than 5 minutes... This morning, I made an excel table. Though it's my first time to do so, there're not any clear instructions for me to follow. So I consumed much of my precious time to make the table while at the meantime I received many phone calls from others and did some other things... After doing so many trifles, I am tired and now a bit dizzy. I can't go outside because the load of my work would come at any minute, what's more, I have no more time to do so... I would like to have a good sleep. I hate sitting in front of the PC screen all day long... But, I have to. That's my duty, my life and of course I am getting better after complaining it out. Is it an easy thing to do---spitWalking on the street,
i have found there are really a large number of people who don't pay attention to their bad behavior and who don't know the effect of their actions. It seems that they don't care about whether it is right or wrong. They don't care about the beauty of their own city. They just do something to harm the appearance or the essence of their city. They spit everywhere,ignoring the people around them and the clean street they walk. So it becomes to be a dark circle, the streets become dirty than ever, nobody wants to protect those ugly streets so that more and more people choose to damage them by their various bad behaviors. So what can we do to let those people know they should improve their charater and be aware of their fault? ---Topic from forever love~ My post after:
We can see few people spit in publich in developed countries. I do think it's one kind of self-restrain. Those who have higher education or lofty personality would never do such things. I am sure most of the young generation won't do and would despise the behavior, but few of us would have the courage to stand out to blame those who spit in public. If we date a man who is older than us?Today,
i met a best friend who i haven't seen for almost five months. She told me that she is very confused now. Her things are like this she has a feeling for a man who has already worked for a press company and is 5 or 6 years older than us. She said that the man is really her type and that man is really a very nice guy although they haven't spoken very much yet. She asked me whether she should give it a try or not, is it right to ask him out for a cup of coffee or have a dinner? She wants to know the feeling when you date a mature man while we are still in the college. She wants to know is it right or wrong to date him. I know she really wants to know more about him and wants to have a serious relationship with him. But the problem is that she hasn't got the courage to ask him out, she is afraid that if the man refuse her, it will be akward for future cooperation. So what can she do right now? Keep her feeling or speak it out or ...?? What's your view? ---Topic from forever love~ My post after:
What's the point your friend wants to date with the man if she knows there's a generation gap between them? Ain't it the wonderful feelings of being with the man makes the girl wants to date with him? I have to say she's not mature, too young to even take a love story. Age is not the obstacles, I think only the feelings are. Do you think your BF candidates should be all your contemparies or be in the same generation gap with you? I don't think so. If people of different ages should have generation gaps, there won't be the couples who have a large age span in the world. Ask your friend what's the real feelings she has towards the man. We cannot date with anybody only because he's nice or excellent in some field. That's not love. Reference only... Once I believe in, I see.“Where is your so-called God?” they kept mocking at me, “show us now!”
“Sorry, I can't.” I whispered. “Why not? Or he doesn’t exist at all?!” “You guys can not see him, but I do believe in him......” “What a fool!” they burst into laughter, and then, walk away. Feeling pretty helpless, I stood there alone, and cried over and over again. They all liked me while I didn't talk about God. They were my good friends and classmates. This was the situation I always fell in when I was 9 or so. I was too young to testify my faith to them. And too weak to bear their mock. “Why, why my faith just gives me suffering but favor?” “Forgive them, my baby girl. For they know nothing about your Heaven Father, but maybe they will know one day.” “Really?” “Really. Now, time to hit the sack. Don't be afraid, your God will look at you until you fall asleep.” “Thank you, Daddy.” This was when I was a little bit young. Often come to my mind at night the couple of days. It's my honor to be a Christian, I got it, now. No matter what other ones say, never break down. And I believe that there must are many people who believe that those things we can't see are always the really ture things. And once you believe in, you can see. How do you find this, my friends? ---Topic from sea-maiden My post after:
I wonder why you think that your faith should give you favor? We are separable individuals in this world and have the freedom and right to choose whether to believe in religions or not. Should only your faith makes you favorable that you belive in it then? I agree to "once you believe in, you can see". So you can see your God while others can't. I am an atheist, if I do not believe in the religion, of course I can't see. Everybody should have something deep inside himself to support him when he faces difficulty, when he fails, when he gets depressed to go ahead in life. Many people choose to believe in GOD. To me it's kind of escaping the realistic world. They want to find someone to fall back on. Perhaps I totally misunderstood those who believe in religions, but to me that's it. While on the other hand, what you believe maybe totally wrong... Only my point of view above... The second foreign languagehello,everybody!At present,i am gonna learn the second foreign language,choosing between japanese and korean,but i am not sure which one is good and easy to learn,and which one can help me a lot for my career,and which one has a convenient language environment to learn,is there anybody here who can speak japanese or korean very well,can u give me some suggestion,if you were me,which one would be your cp of tea?
Let's talk about! ---Topic from heky My post after:
which one is good and easy to learn It depends~! As which is good, different people have different evaluation, right? As to me I think Japanese is easier than Korean. which one can help me a lot for my career There are many Japanese companies in China. If you want to be an employee of Japanese company, Japanese should be your best choice. Otherwise, choose the other. which one has a convenient language environment to learn Japanese of course. You can find many Japanese cartoons, TV plays, pop concerts, etc. in China. if you were me,which one would be your cup of tea? I have no other choice but Japanese! I like its sound. And its pronunciation is similar to my dialect. How to avoid sleepy...Those days,
the weather becomes perfect which gives me a good mood. But we know that every coin has two sides, this warm weather effect my body, making me feel so sleepy that i can't concentrate my mind on reading or doing some other stuff. I just want to go to bed,grab my pillow and go to sleep~~~ So how can i avoid these things??? I am a lazy bone, is that right? ---Topic from Forever love~
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When you feel sleepy in warm days, just have a nap within 15 minutes. It is good for you to have a nap especially in the noon after lunch. But you should make sure that you would get up and go back to your work after your 15-minute sleeping time. If you always feel sleepy in the afternoon: 1. Do mind yourself not eat too much food at lunch. Getting too much food will not only harm your stomach but also influent your spirit in the afternoon. 2. Do have a rest or go out for a short-time walk when you feel sleepy. Your brain needs some rest and the fresh air outside would give your brain a thorough refreshment. 3. Do some simple exercises like jumping rope, jogging for a while or some sports else could also make your mind clear. Do have a try!!! How to improve my English?, help me!Dear all, I am anguished now, because I don't know how to improve my English! I am a cost accountant from 2005 to Aug,2006, since Aug,2006, my manager left our company, I became the finance manager(I feel surprised)!my boss is a german ,he think I am competent to fit this position!of course,it is a good chance for me, my English is poor !though I passed CET-6 in university, I have difficulty to communicate with my boss!my oral English and listening capacity are poor especially! so I must improve my English, I hope I am a excellent employee!
But until now, I have not found a good way to improve my English, so would you pls to help me---tell me how to do? Thank you, my dear friends! ---Topic from sparrow308
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To excuse me, but I have to say that I can find many grammatical mistakes in your post.
You have the determination to improve your English, that's good. Then my suggestions are as follows: 1. To read as many English magazines as you can. First, to sigle out the artiles that you are interested in and then to read as many others left as you could. Reading can form you a basic stracture of English. At least next time when you write, you would be more fluent in writing. 2. To find any chance to practise oral English with your partners face to face. To go to English corner or voice chat online with others. In doing so, your oral English can be improved soon. 3. To do some English Dictation. Just talke active part in PUT's ST's activities. Through dictation to develop a pair of sensitive ears to better understanding what you hear in English. 4. Last but not least, you'd better come here to take part in topic discussions as often as you could. To practise your English writing. Because practice makes perfect. If you do not write as much as you can, how you improve your writing then? There must be more methods of how to improve English and different people have different kinds of ways that are suitable to them most. You'll find more useful ways in PUT if you spend some time browsing other places in PUT. The role of MediaThe role of media:
The signaler role: The first significant role the press played is that of a signaler- alerting the public to important developments as soon as possible after they happen. News organizations compete to be the first to discover and communicate news developments.The press, as Bernard Cohen noted, ''may not be successful much of the time in telling people what to think but it is stunningly successful in telling them what to think about.'' The common-carrier role: As journalists base many of their news stories on the words of political leaders, the press plays what is labeled a common-carrier role, serving as an open channel through which political leaders and the public can communicate. The watchdog role: Media has accepted responsibility for protecting the public from deceitful, careless, incompetent, and corrupt officials. So, the media are ready to expose all social ills and political corruptions for the purpose of development. In my personal view, the roles of media are more than above and It is not limited for people finding other roles. The media have the responsibility to report the news and express their ideas unless they jeopardize national security. Some foreign media report some negative news about china and someone think it should not be tolerate. I acknowledge some words even purpose of foreign media are not suitable.But, everytime I watch cctv news, I cannot find any negative news about china and always find negative news in other country. The media give so many people a false feeling that we do not have any problem and the country's strong depends on the time. The optimistic feeling at some extent can do some good and what is about the future. Can we paralyse our people all the time? Our GDP grow fast, but it results on the environment devasted and resouces consumed unwisely and so many workers who hardly work with low salary. It is not problem? We have problem and so many and they can not be solved in a short time. Sometimes, I think we are citizens of big land country and why don't we tolerate some negative news and regard them as mirror to help clean the dirty things on the face. why don't we report more positive news of other countries for the purpose of learning. For a democratic goverment, Giving the citizens and media few limit to express ideas and news can show its democracy and opening. Topic: what do you think about media?
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Topic: what do you think about media?
China is such a large country with so many people. But most of her population is occupied by farmers. They live in relatively underdeveloped regions in China, that's why they have less chance to have good education and most farmers in China are undereducated. They are too easy to believe anything printed on newspaters. So I think it is necessary for China government to control the press. For those who have higher education and could go online to search news in different countries who also are knowledgeable enough to evaluate things by themselves, it seems that we need freedom in publishing public news. But we should take all the general condition of China into account. We should judge by ourselves. Never totally trust what you read on newspapers. A Shoe-polisher ActorZhou Lin probably never had any idea that he would watch a tape which recorded some days of his old life before the camera of “Documentary” of CCTV. The 24-year-old orphan, who had just come back to Beijing from the prize-awarding ceremony for “Still Life”(三峡好人) in Venice, tried to cover his tearful eyes and check his emotions while watching it. In the tape, he was smiling at the camera and saying how delicious the noodles he just cooked were. That was nine years ago, when he came to Beijing from Hubei, his hometown, with an aim of becoming an actor. At that time, he could only find a film once in a long while which offered him a position as a figurant and the pay was meager. He went to many directors, but was turned down all the time. Once a director told him , in an implicit way, not to stick to “one” dream and that one should know better to adapt his ideal. He said with smiles that he wished to persist in what he was doing.
He had to eke out a living by polishing leather shoes. He lived in a room of 10-odd ㎡ and on some 200 yuan per month. Hard as life was, he showed no sign of discouragement. He hated noodles back at home, but now he said he had been used to them. He was even self-mocking, labeling the noodles he cooked as “Chef Zhou” and considering them much better than the signature “Chef Kang”. The hardships seemed not to dent his enthusiasm for his dream at all. Nine years has elapsed. “Documentary” of CCTV wanted to find out what had happened to the determined dream-pursuer. It turned out that he obtained a minor role in “Still Life”. When asked for his plan for days to come, he said he wanted to impress Zhang Yimou five years later and to get an important role in his play. Saying these words, he still bears his hometown accents, as he did nine years ago, and his tone is still determinant, only in his eyes there is no innocence and teenage jaunty as before. His father died when he was two and his mother passed away in 1998. The orphanized youth now is still earning his live by polishing leather shoes in Wenzhou. He said he wanted to save enough living cost for 3-year stay in Beijing so that he could devote himself to acting. He said his budgeted cost for a month in Beijing was 300 yuan. After watching the story, I felt some nameless stuff swelling in my stomach, but I could not identify what that was. Maybe this is life, a mystery that gives you dreams and drudgery, hopes and hardship. ---Topic from skybourn
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He's a shoe polisher, he's also a dream keeper. He's poor in life, but he's not humble for he gets money from the service he offers to others. He has the dreams to chase, so he's working hard and brush aside all the realistic difficulties in life. Is he brave, courageous or just stupid? For he's been paying too much on one dream that could not be realized? You may say it's not practical sometimes, your dreams should be based on your present condition. That's true and we can not achieve things that beyond our limits. But should us confine ourselve in the small world of our own and for ever? To broaden your mind, develop your creativity and enrich yourself, otherwise you won't get new knowledge of the outside world. And like what others say: no impossible things, but unthinkable things. You can be the one, the imaginary one that you ever thought about. If you do not think first, nothing special miraculous would happen. Those who do not have dreams in life are the real ones who are poor. They live without objects just like corpse on the world. About "Lost in Translation"Last night I watched the film.
Actually I do expect that kind of love. Although I'm now in love with a boy,but it seems lack something... In an unfamiliar country,they met each other ,both with a complicated mood...they fell in love ..and then say goodbye .. I do not know how to express my feeling about the film definitely... ---Topic from if nobodyelse My poster after:
The film's name is "Lost in Translation"? I do think it's a normal movie about love. Sometimes people would fall in love because of their boring daily life. They want to have some change, so they begin to love someone without any reasons and then break up without reasons too... To me, it's hard to really love somebody. Once you love the guy, it means you would do anything for him/her. Do ask yourself, is there a person who you would like to do anything for and all his/her shortcomings to others to you are the shining points that charm you most? If you can only see his/her good points and bear all his/her shortcomings, and you are getting ready to do anything for the guy, you love him/her. 有关于B'z的歌~突然想起来，曾经在很早以前在网上放了5首B'z的歌。 超级超级超级摇滚的歌哦， 现在听起来都无比震撼呢！ 准备好要去听听了么？ 你要做的首先是把音量调到最大~~~！！！ 打开网页以后看右上方， 歌曲都在上面那个媒体播放器里面。 可以利用前后键选择歌曲， 建议每首歌都听到最后哦。 有些歌高潮在最后哦， 真得非常得好听呢！ 暴喜欢主唱的声音！ 有心脏病没有心理承受能力的朋友千万不要打开以下网页哦！！！ http://hompy.cn/haluaki （打开网址以后可能有段缓冲的时间，这个时候是没有声音的。） |
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